The other night I taught a “Twitter for Beginners” class for a group of local small business owners. Most of them weren’t on Twitter at all and just wanted to learn more about it to see if it might be something they could use. A lot of the conversation centered around how we as business owners should approach Twitter. One of the questions I hear often is whether it’s best to create a Twitter account for yourself, or for your business, or some combination of the two. Somehow included in that question are two more questions:
- What should I tweet about (and how often)?
- Why would people want to follow me (and who should I follow back)?
I’ve always felt that those who are most “successful” at using Twitter are those who get on Twitter as themselves first, without the pretense of using it as a marketing tool. Using the common Twitter analogies of it being a 24/7 water cooler or cocktail party, this makes complete sense. You don’t go to a cocktail party (do people still go to cocktail parties? I’m not sure I’ve ever been to one) in order to market or sell your product. You go to socialize. If you go for the purpose of selling/marketing, you very quickly become “that guy” and you’ll find you aren’t invited to future gatherings.
So if you’re going to be on Twitter, using it effectively, and getting people to follow you, you need to be rather well rounded.And by that I mean don’t be one-dimensional. This is one of the mistakes that people make when they decide to approach Twitter from a purely mercenary perspective. They sell Thingamajiggies and therefore all they do is talk about Thingamajiggies. “We sell Thingamajiggies! Different sizes, different colors, different features. Get your Thingamajiggies here!”
No one is that one-dimensional, or if they are…how boring! For me, Social Media and marketing are a big part of who I am and what I do, but it’s certainly not all I talk about. If you follow me on Twitter (and bless you, if you do!) you’ll see me talking about the things in which I’m interested: friends, family, baseball, music, books, food, coffee, Lancaster, and yes…Social Media. And I’ll follow people based on all of those interests. The real fun comes in when I follow someone who shares more than one of my interests. The more we have in common, the more likely we are to hit it off and develop a relationship.
Your followers (or potential followers) aren’t one-dimensional, so you shouldn’t be either. Converse. Engage. Talk about the things you would talk about at that aforementioned cocktail party or water cooler moment. Share your interests and passions and jump into conversations with other people if you like what they are talking about.
I asked my followers on Twitter and Facebook to tell me what compels them to follow (or unfollow) someone on twitter. Here are a few of the tips they have for you and me:
1. Complete your profile – Even if you are Tweeting as your company, have a full name, location, and description of who you are and what you do. Don’t make us guess.
2. Get a picture – Preferably a picture of yourself and not just some random image. We like to see who is on the other end. But by all means, do NOT just leave the default picture up there.
3. Post interesting content – If you post the same boring stuff over and over again, people won’t be interested in what you have to say.
and perhaps the most important factor:
4. Engage! – Twitter is not a broadcasting platform. If I reply to you and get no reaction in return…ever…then I know you aren’t there or aren’t listening. Or, you’re just rude. Whether I talk to you first, or you initiate the dialogue, it doesn’t matter; just make sure you engage. If I look at your Twitter feed and see no @replies, I probably won’t bother following you.
In short, be well rounded. Talk about a lot of things and don’t just talk into the air. Talk with people, not at them. And, well…just be interesting!
Do you have any other tips for being a well-rounded tweeter that other people want to follow?





I guess what I have trouble with is that I'm used to facebook where I only engage with people that I know in person, so it's a bit of a mental block for me on twitter to jump right in and start engaging with people that I don't really know. Especially b/c I'm very shy in person and certainly wouldn't start talking to a stranger out of the blue in person and feel just as weird doing so on twitter. What's the "twitter etiquette" of engaging with people that you only know via Twitter?
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